Then it hit him. He was to open an earth-friendly-organic home and garden store, which would obviously include floral. With bad timing, (the economic crash) he decided to curb his vision, and focus solely on flowers.

Years later Botanica Floral Design is thriving. The full-service floral company offers a wide range of jobs from corporate to memorials to everyday, but Josef has a soft spot for weddings. “I really love doing weddings. You get to be a part of a very special time in people’s lives.” He acknowledges the stress weddings can bring, but firmly believes the reward overrides it.

While Josef is pleased with the success of his growing business, he notes the frustrations that can go into creating floral arrangements and the hard (and endless) work that goes into building a business from scratch. For example, during his first year he only took a measly 6 days off. Total. Now that is commitment.

Years ago a former mentor told Josef, “You can teach technique, but you can’t teach talent.” Those words of wisdom have taught Josef to appreciate and utilize his artistic eye. His creative inspiration comes from the flowers themselves, “When I am at the market, it is like being a kid in a candy store.” When customers make unique requests Josef enjoys the challenge, as it really pushes his creativity.

The future looks bright for Botanica Floral Design. “I discovered many years ago that one creative idea can open the door to many more ideas and possibilities.” Josef eventually would love to expand his business to meet his original vision- a earth-friendly-organic home and garden store.  If you are looking for an artistic florist who is passionate about flowers and who pushes the boundaries, while being environmentally sound- we suggest you give Josef Reiter of Botanica Floral Design a call.

1. Communicate with your fiancé. It is very important the two of you are on the same page.  You can either write them together or separately.  If you choose to compose them apart don’t leave each other completely in the dark.  While your vows don’t have to be exactly the same, they should be similar in length and not too far off in voice and content.  Also, discuss if you want to reveal your vows before the wedding or save them for the ceremony.

2. Brainstorm.  Think all the way back to the day you met- what you were feeling, thinking, wearing, every possible detail you can remember will help ease the process.  Remember moments along the way: Where was your first date? First kiss? When did you fall in love? How did he/she propose? Etc…  Think of all the themes in your relationship: inside jokes, favorite songs and/or quotes- anything and everything between the two of you.

3. Start writing your vows.  Before putting that pen to the paper review how traditional vows are done. Discuss with your partner how (if at all) you want to specifically incorporate traditional elements.  Once your personal guidelines are set (length, voice, content, traditional elements) start writing.  After completing a fairly revised draft ask for your Officiant’s opinion, as he/she may have a suggestion or two.

Following these three simple steps will make your writing process easier.  After the vows are exchanged and the wedding is over don’t throw away or misplace your vows.  Keep them in a special place so the two of you can look back and cherish the very special day they were exchanged.

Upon entering on the corner of 14^th and Overton I looked on as eager brides were greeted by the friendly staff and handed gift bags.  The first room was occupied by none other than the Wedding Lounge, which turned out to be the best location in the house. Nearly all of our lounge players were in attendance. Le Cookie Monkey was serving a variety of treats, including delicious mini s’mores. Nearby was A Yen For Chocolate and SJ Dessert Company serving their own mouthwatering bites. The line at My Bartender was becoming increasingly longer as the night went on- everyone excited to try their soon- to- be- famous Blood Orange Gin and Tonics, but not to be outdone by Espresso Volare.  Our coffee connoisseur was serving her own lengthy line delicious espresso drinks. To the right Crave Catering was serving up Bacon Pear’d with Tofu that will not be easily forgotten.

The food and drinks were not the only hit in the Wedding Lounge section, as the ambience did not go overlooked. Barclay Event Rentals provided a stunning center table, complete with beautiful flower arrangements by Botanica Floral Design and Flowers by Wendy. My eye kept going to the beautifully captured reels of film Hybrid Moon had on display, located next to the Best Car in Town raffle give-away.  In the corner Paparazzi Tonight was gathering their own line, guests really couldn’t get enough of the photo fun photo.

As I made my way through the rest of the show rooms, separated by sheets covered in trendy décor I was mesmerized by the eclectic group of wedding professionals.  There was so much variety, something for every bride and groom.  At one end Ben and Jerry’s were serving up their well-known scoops, and at the other glamorous Stella & Dot jewelry was being tried on by several brides-to-be.  The energy running throughout the space was endless, I could feel excitement from the warm chatter, and smiles all around.

Around 7pm I heard the most charming voice known to man. Eric Wright, of All Wright Music, (also our MC & DJ for the evening) announced the upcoming fashion show. VIP brides took their front row seats and everyone else gathered around. There were ultimately five collections shown, each one with their own distinct style. My favorite, Embellished Design- it really doesn’t get much chicer than that. Every model waltzed down the steep steps and made their way to A Step Above’s custom stage, located at the end of the runway.

After the excitement of the fashion show wound down the future brides scurried back to the wedding professionals who had caught their eye and the friendly chatter picked back up.  I’m pleased to report the successful evening went on without a hitch and both the brides-to-be and wedding professionals left excited and fulfilled.

The best way to begin selecting song is to break down your ceremony and reception.

CEREMONY

Prelude: Music played as guests are arriving and taking their seats before the wedding ceremony begins.  Best to choose something a bit subdued, as they will want to mingle before things get underway.

All Wright Music’s Pick: Just Like Heaven by Vitamin String Quartet

Processional: Music played as important guests, as well as the bridal party makes their way down the aisle, your song should build a bit of anticipation leading up to the bride.

All Wright Music’s Pick: Pachelbel Meets U2 by Jon Schmidt

Brides Entrance: These days bridal entrance songs vary more than they use to.  While the traditional bride usually prefers ‘Here Comes the Bride’ the modern bride is opting for a different tune. Either way works.

All Wright Music’s Picks: Bridal Chorus by Aaron Meyer, Forever by Ben Harper

Interlude Music: Interlude music is played during a significant part of the ceremony, it may be during the lighting of a unity candle or a prayer.  This choice should be reflective of you as a couple.

All Wright Music’s Pick: Air One the F String by Jon Schmidt

Wedding Recessional: This is the music played when the newlyweds walk back up the aisle after the ceremony.  Most chose a joyous and upbeat song to get the celebration started.

All Wright Music’s Picks: I Do by Colbie Caillat, Marry You by Bruno Mars, Rhythm of Love by Plain White T’s

Postlude: After the bride and groom have vacated, the postlude music is played. This song should set the tone for the reception, most tend to continue with upbeat tunes to transition into the reception.

All Wright Music’s Picks: I’m a Believer by Smash Mouth Signed, Sealed, Delivered by Stevie Wonder

RECEPTION

First Dance: This is the first dance you will have as a married couple. It’s important you make sure this song properly represents your relationship. Make sure to have fun with it- there is really no reason to play it safe on this one!

All Wright Music’s Pick: First Day of My Life by Bright Eyes

Mother/Son Dance: This is the groom’s chance to honor his mother.  Similar to the first dance, chose a song that reflects your relationship. If you two tend to joke around go for something light and fun, or vise versa.

All Wright Music’s Pick: Wonderful World by Louis Armstrong

Father/Daughter Dance: This will most likely be one of the most emotional and sentimental parts of the reception.  It’s best to choose something that truly demonstrates your love and appreciation for your father.

All Wright Music’s Pick: Father & Daughter by Paul Simon

Anniversary Song: This song celebrates all of the happily married couples in attendance.  It’s best to choose romantic tunes that are full of meaning.

All Wright Music’s Pick: Through the Years by Kenny Rogers 

Dinner Music: During dinner you want to select light background music. This way your guests can enjoy each other’s company with a pleasant ambience.

All Wright Music’s Pick: Anything by Pink Martini

Bouquet/Garter Toss: This is the time to pull out the upbeat jams. Make sure to have fun- it doesn’t matter if you choose a hit from the 60’s or a popular song that just was recently released, as long as it’s light-hearted and upbeat your guests will enjoy.

All Wright Music’s Picks: Single Ladies and James Bond Theme

Last Dance: Wrap up the night with one last special song. It’s best to select a playful song that ends the evening on a positive note.

All Wright Music’s Pick: Good Life by OneRepublic

OLD

-Brides are saying good-bye to the old (and quite frankly washed up) handkerchief and welcoming a variety of heirlooms as their ‘something old.’  This is a great way to recognize your family.  This doesn’t mean you have to squeeze into your grandmother’s wedding dress- a great alternative is to replace your wedding dress buttons with hers.  If you would rather not wear your mother’s veil, why don’t you wrap it around your bouquet?  Talk to your mother and see what heirlooms you have access to, and then get creative.

NEW

-You’ve got the most freedom when selecting your ‘something new.’  Treat yourself. This is your chance to purchase something dear to you, an item you will want to pass on to your daughter on her wedding day. This item can be anything from a fancy perfume to a beautiful piece of jewelry.  Buy something you really want and have had your eye on for a while.

BORROWED

-This may be your most difficult item to select, as it may be tough to decide whom exactly you want to borrow from- remember to borrow from someone who is significant to you.  This could be your chance to borrow your sister’s diamond earrings (you know the ones she would never let you normally wear), or perhaps you will opt to wear your mother’s pearl necklace that has been passed down for generations.  Whatever you decide, think long and hard about this opportunity- and take advantage of it!

BLUE

-The most popular blue item (even to this day) is a lacy blue garter; while this option is acceptable don’t be scared to mix it up.  There are many ways to do this, depending if blue is in your color scheme. If it is- try cute blue heels, a small clutch, or beautiful sash. If blue isn’t one of your colors go for something a bit more subtle.  A piece of jewelry with a blue stone or blue lingerie are both great options.

For information: http://www.bravowedding.com/weddingaffair/show/january-2012-wedding-affair/

Cherie Ronning, Founder of the Wedding Lounge and Amy Prutch, 1/2 of AJ's Studio - Art of Joy Wedding Photography - aka The Lounge Divas, at the November Bravo Wedding Affair!

1. Wear your mothers wedding dress. This adds a sentimental touch to your wedding
while being environmentally aware.

2. Have your ceremony & reception at the same location. Not only does this prevent a hassle for you and your guests, but also it ultimately uses fewer resources.

3. Give your wedding guests the option of donating to a charity instead of giving you a wedding gift. If you are set on household items, this option is worth some consideration!

4. Choose the color and/or general style of your bridesmaid’s dresses; but let your bridesmaids choose their specific dress.  This way they are more likely to wear it again after the wedding.

5. Give delicious organic chocolates for wedding favors. Cristina Yen of, A Yen for Chocolate has the best gourmet chocolates in the Northwest!

6. Supply a reply postcard in your wedding invitation; this uses less paper than an envelope. Or better yet, have your guests RSVP on your wedding website.

7. Encourage your out of town guests to travel by train and line them up with eco-friendly hotels during their stay.

8. Rent real glasses, dishes, and linens.  Not only does this make your wedding a lot classier, but most importantly it also saves trees.

9. Serve food and display flowers that are in season.  This is not only a sustainable practice, but it is also an inexpensive one.  After your wedding donate your flowers to a hospital.

10. Have a fairly local honeymoon. This option is not only greener, but also a lot less expensive. Research spots nearby, you may be surprised at the interesting places nearby.

Different Shapes & Sizes

It’s important all of your bridesmaids feel comfortable in what they are wearing.  If you decide to dress all of your girls in the same design, make sure the cut is fairly simple and is flattering to all of your bridesmaids. An empire waist is usually the most versatile fit.

Consider the Costs

Consider the cost and style, before assigning your bridesmaids to the same dress.  Your girls are not going to be excited to buy a $300 dress they are never going to wear again- the simpler the cut, the better. And of course keep the price point reasonable; an average bridesmaid dress is around $150-200.  If your wedding has a variety of colors, consider dressing your bridesmaids in the same cut, but allowing them to choose their color.

Mix It Up

An easy and increasingly popular option is choosing the dress color and having your bridesmaids pick their own dress. This way there is still consistency, but your bridesmaids can choose the cut they are most comfortable in and a dress they will most likely wear again for a cost they are willing to paying.  It also takes pressure off of you in trying to please everyone.

10. When choosing wedding professionals, go with your gut instinct

It is important you trust and like every wedding professional you hire, as you will be spending time with them. If you get a bad vibe, but their price is right- don’t do it!

9. Hire a wedding coordinator from the very beginning

Wedding coordinators have planned A LOT of weddings, while you (most likely) haven’t planned one. Reach out to the professionals ASAP, as they will ultimately save you time, money and a lot of stress.

8. Is gratuity included?

It is important to carefully review all of the contracts you sign with each wedding professional you hire. Sometimes the gratuity is included and sometimes it is not.  Take into account how much the total will be, with tip.

7. Destination weddings are affordable

When everything is said and done destination weddings are usually not more than the local wedding. You’re typically inviting fewer guests, hotels tend to offer awesome deals for groups, and you’re already on your honeymoon!

6. Pick an unimportant DIY project

If you are looking to get creative and put your own unique touch on your special day, more power to you. But do NOT choose something that is imperative to the wedding (like invitations, flowers etc.). That way if you can’t get it done, it’s not a big deal.

5. Don’t fill your venue’s capacity

Before booking a venue, make sure you are clearly under the site’s capacity. Venues will try and sell you, saying their full capacity is comfortable. I can assure you, it is not.

4. Hire a professional photographer/videographer

A quality camera does not equal a quality photographer. Your photos and video are one of the most important components of your wedding.  Don’t leave it to your friend who takes photos as a hobby, spend some money and hire a professional.

3. Have a beauty, bridal dress rehearsal

Have your makeup artist and hairstylist do a trial run prior to the wedding day. The day of you will be on a fairly tight schedule, leaving little time for a do over. Walk around in your wedding dress and shoes before the big day, to ensure you feel comfortable.

2. Spend more time with your mom the morning of your wedding

Prepare to have a heartfelt conversation with your mom before walking down the aisle. Remember this day is big for her as well; she too is giving away her little girl.

1. The wedding lasts a day, the marriage lasts a lifetime

It’s easy to get caught up in everything that goes into planning a wedding, to gain some perspective think about the reason you’re having the wedding in the first place.

Please help us welcome one of our newest and most inventive members of the Wedding Lounge, Jamal and Kari St. Peters of, A Step Above – Custom Wedding Stages.  I was most fascinated with how their unique idea came to fruition, as it was not completely premeditated it just kind of fell into place.

A couple years ago, while planning their outdoor wedding they came to a stand still as they were looking for a platform centerpiece that did not exist.  An arch structure was not appealing, as they didn’t want an obstructed view of their beautiful wedding site and they needed a solid place to stand. That is when Jamal decided to build their own wedding stage, his basic plan ended up evolving into something a lot more meaningful than initially imagined. Their beautiful custom stage, complete with their initials used as a large monogram in the center, was a hit at their wedding. After family and friends encouraged them to start a business, A Step Above was formed.

When asked to describe their business, customized, personal, and elegant were the first words used. Both Jamal and Kari are adamant on their willingness to work closely with their clients to accommodate their specific needs and vision. While they use locally reclaimed or FSC certified renewable lumber as much as possible they also offer an array of other materials, such as metal, tile, glass, and stone.  They assured me the most important thing is the stage is personalized and high quality as it is meant to last forever.

The most unique aspect of their business is the great sentiment the stage holds for years to come. While working with their clients there is discussion of wedding location, wedding colors and theme, the clients’ unique personalities and the future use of the stage. While Kari and Jamal had originally imagined turning their stage into the foundation for a gazebo, they ended up hanging it in their wood studio and refer to is as their ‘inspiration piece.’ The custom stages can also be transformed into a dining room table, headboard, wall hanging, or anything else you can dream up. They are limited only by your imagination.

There are both rental and purchase options. Rentals include a customized insert for the rented stage. The custom insert then becomes your keepsake. They also offer customized inserts for your rented dance floor, to capture the spot of your first dance together as a married couple and add some of your personality to the reception.

The St. Peters’ goal for the future is to make custom stages a wedding necessity. Unlike most other components of a wedding, they point out how their custom stages are a tangible piece you can hold on to forever, as it becomes a treasured symbol of your marriage.